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I tend to be a goal-oriented person.
I like to cross things off my to-do list. When I go for a run or a hike, I like to see how far I can go without stopping. While this is fine if it’s just me, it’s not as effective when small children are along for the trip. Sunshine and River are not motivated by finish lines or endurance records.
This means that while it’s sometimes difficult for me to slow down and enjoy the journey, I am learning and getting better at not focusing on the finish line.
I was reminded of how far I have to go still while on our hike last week.
We found a bridge over a small stream and the kiddos stopped to play Pooh Sticks. But first Sunshine showed River how to play the game. It evolved into Pooh Leaves as Sunshine realized the stream was too shallow and rocky for sticks to easily float. River lost interest in the leaves and focused on poking a stick into the water.
They were having a blast.
I started feeling impatient though.
We weren’t going anywhere.
We were wasting time.
And then I stopped.
We weren’t wasting time. Wasn’t this exactly what I wanted them to do outside? Exploring and playing and trying new things and having a great time? Sunshine was already making plans to wear sandals next time so she could go in the water and have even more fun.
After that slap to the brain, I took a breath and relaxed.
We played in the water for a bit longer, then proceeded down the trail.
I could have pushed and rushed us on our way, but because I didn’t, the kids had a great time and are looking forward to going back.
Have you had to remind yourself to slow down and take the time to play in the stream?
